The calendar is the artefact.
Invitations, approaching dates, clear updates, cancellation windows, and a history of plans that ended exactly as promised.
Follow a planCalendar protection + planned cancellationReal commitments / Credibly cancelledIssue 001 / Waitlist
A real commitment,
credibly cancelled
on time.
A scheduled block / Nobody needs to turn upCancelled, as promised.
Plans With You reserves a real block in your calendar, sends a credible email confirming the commitment, and cancels the meeting at the configured time so your week is unbroken. Use it as a plausible prior commitment, or simply to keep the time yours.
Protected time with a commitment that looks the part — and predictably gets cancelled.
Join the waitlist Paid membership is not open. No card required.- Belonging
- Equal at every tier
- Attendance
- Never expected
- Communication
- Silence is valid
- Current access
- Waitlist only
You were on the list the whole time.
Two practical reasons people use Plans With You: as a credible prior commitment when they need to say no to something else, and as a quiet way to keep a block of time their own so the rest of the week does not fill it in.
Warmly,
Plans With You
Cancellation is the destination.
This is an example, not a real event or venue booking. Every ordinary plan is made with a clear date, then cancelled before you ever have to go. If something gets in the way, a person steps in.
What happens
An ordinary plan, successfully unmade
An example only. No real venue, booking, endorsement, or partnership is implied.
Current stateCancelled
- Date
- Chapter
- Your chosen chapter
- Status
- Cancelled on purpose
- Place
- A plausible place, confirmed before use
The sequence
- InvitedThe invitation is on its way.
- PlannedThe plan has a date.
- ApproachingThe date is getting closer.
- CancelledCurrentThe plan is cancelled on purpose. The promise has been kept.Current state
- ArchivedThe invitation and cancellation stay together in your history.
The promised result
No RSVP / No check-in / No no-show / No attendance required
We won’t pretend there’s a crowd.
No ordinary plans have been completed yet. When that changes, we’ll say so. Until then, zero is the honest number.
On schedule.
In the post.
Care takes physical form.
Correspondence, cards, milestone objects, and human attention become more tangible at higher tiers—only when your membership includes them and you have asked for them.
See what may arriveMore tangible.
Never more belonging.
Every member is equally wanted. Higher tiers add more physical mail and human attention—not status, greater belonging, or an obligation to engage.
Member
A$5AUD / month
The digital proof of a real commitment.
A scheduled commitment that blocks your calendar and a credible email confirming it. The same product at every tier, plus more credibility outside the website as the price rises.
- Club identity and member number
- Calendar Meetings that block your time as busy
- A scheduled cancellation, sent on time
- Personalised digital correspondence
Corresponding Member
A$20AUD / month
Human validation, posted letters.
Everything in Member, with a real person able to confirm the commitment by letter or phone when someone asks.
- Welcome pack and physical membership card
- Posted birthday card
- Posted anniversary card
- Signed letters from our team
Deluxe Member
A$50AUD / month
Physical evidence, presence if you ever need it.
Everything in Corresponding Member, with posted parcels, optional calls, and access to a real person who can be physically present if the commitment ever needs it.
- All of the above
- Posted parcels and gifts
- Opted-in calls at permitted windows
- Premium milestone treatment
These are preview prices. Paid membership is not open, and we will not ask for a card.
Silence is a successful membership.
No social homework
No posting, networking, streak, reply, or regular login is required.
Memory you control
Inspect, correct, restrict, revoke, or delete what you have chosen to share.
You choose each extra
Post, gifts, calls, help with commitments, and in-person help are separate choices.
AI stays in its place
AI may help with a draft. It cannot invent things about you or ignore your choices.
Nothing remembered behind your back.
We only use details you have confirmed. Suggestions stay separate until you approve them, and anything you reject or withdraw is left alone. You can see, change, or remove what we remember. If something cannot be completed safely, a person steps in.
Read the privacy approachPut your name on a list you never have to perform for.
Register your interest in Member, Corresponding Member, or Deluxe Member. We will write when there is something real to say.
Join the waitlist