The calendar is the artefact.
Invitations, approaching dates, clear updates, cancellation windows, and a history of plans that ended exactly as promised.
Follow a planMembership / MelbourneOrdinary plans / Cancelled as promisedIssue 001 / Waitlist
Plans are made.
Then unmade.
You remain.
A future date / No attendance requiredCancelled, as promised.
A real membership built around invitations you are never expected to accept. We make thoughtful plans with you, cancel them on purpose, and keep the relationship going.
Join the waitlist Paid membership is not open. No card required.- Belonging
- Equal at every tier
- Attendance
- Never expected
- Communication
- Silence is valid
- Current access
- Waitlist only
You were on the list the whole time.
Most clubs ask you to prove you belong by turning up. Plans With You does not. The invitation carries the feeling; the cancellation carries the relief; the memory carries the relationship.
Warmly,
Plans With You
Cancellation is the destination.
This is an example, not a real event or venue booking. Every ordinary plan is made with a clear date, then cancelled before you ever have to go. If something gets in the way, a person steps in.
What happens
An ordinary plan, successfully unmade
An example only. No real venue, booking, endorsement, or partnership is implied.
Current stateCancelled
- Date
- Chapter
- Your chosen chapter
- Status
- Cancelled on purpose
- Place
- A plausible place, confirmed before use
The sequence
- InvitedThe invitation is on its way.
- PlannedThe plan has a date.
- ApproachingThe date is getting closer.
- CancelledCurrentThe plan is cancelled on purpose. The promise has been kept.Current state
- ArchivedThe invitation and cancellation stay together in your history.
The promised result
No RSVP / No check-in / No no-show / No attendance required
We won’t pretend there’s a crowd.
No ordinary plans have been completed yet. When that changes, we’ll say so. Until then, zero is the honest number.
On schedule.
In the post.
Care takes physical form.
Correspondence, cards, milestone objects, and human attention become more tangible at higher tiers—only when your membership includes them and you have asked for them.
See what may arriveMore tangible.
Never more belonging.
Every member is equally wanted. Higher tiers add more physical mail and human attention—not status, greater belonging, or an obligation to engage.
Member
A$5AUD / month
Plans, cancellations, memory.
The complete core membership.
- Club identity and member number
- Invitations and unmade plans
- Personalised digital correspondence
- Birthday and anniversary recognition
Corresponding Member
A$20AUD / month
Plans arrive in the post.
Everything in Member, with substantial physical correspondence.
- Welcome pack and physical membership card
- Posted birthday card
- Posted anniversary card
- Signed letters
Deluxe Member
A$50AUD / month
Genuine attention from the people behind it.
Everything in Corresponding Member, with deeper personal attention.
- All of the above
- Thoughtful gifts
- Opted-in calls
- Premium milestone treatment
These are preview prices. Paid membership is not open, and we will not ask for a card.
Silence is a successful membership.
No social homework
No posting, networking, streak, reply, or regular login is required.
Memory you control
Inspect, correct, restrict, revoke, or delete what you have chosen to share.
You choose each extra
Post, gifts, calls, help with commitments, and in-person help are separate choices.
AI stays in its place
AI may help with a draft. It cannot invent things about you or ignore your choices.
Nothing remembered behind your back.
We only use details you have confirmed. Suggestions stay separate until you approve them, and anything you reject or withdraw is left alone. You can see, change, or remove what we remember. If something cannot be completed safely, a person steps in.
Read the privacy approachPut your name on a list you never have to perform for.
Register your interest in Member, Corresponding Member, or Deluxe Member. We will write when there is something real to say.
Join the waitlist